Comments on: Do Horses Lie? http://parelliworld.com/do-horses-lie/ This is a blog by Jerry S. Williams for Parelli students. Mon, 23 Jan 2012 21:03:14 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Ellen Byers http://parelliworld.com/do-horses-lie/comment-page-1/#comment-392 Ellen Byers Mon, 14 Sep 2009 22:20:44 +0000 http://parelliworld.com/?p=82#comment-392 Jerry, I just came across your blog. The video about Khan made me tear up. I got to thinking about how many equine friends I have. Also read your blog on keeping one's dreams alive. People do think I'm kind of crazy to have so many horses but how can you have too many friends? Jerry, I just came across your blog. The video about Khan made me tear up. I got to thinking about how many equine friends I have.

Also read your blog on keeping one’s dreams alive. People do think I’m kind of crazy to have so many horses but how can you have too many friends?

]]> By: Ksenia http://parelliworld.com/do-horses-lie/comment-page-1/#comment-386 Ksenia Wed, 22 Jul 2009 13:01:49 +0000 http://parelliworld.com/?p=82#comment-386 Dear Jerry, I am new to your blog, but glad I found it. Very moving, inspiring video. I expected it to be a tribute to your horse only, but it was more universal than that. Thank you, and please thank your wife for me. An old Icelandic show and school horse was my teacher. Also I learned a lot from doing most of the ground and green work to develop an icey mare. Do you think Icelandics are a little different from other horses? They don't usually respond as a prey animal as much, not having any natural enemies for a long tim. At least that is the conventional wisdom about them I have heard. My first horse of my own is supposed to be an 6 year old icey, but she has a difficult personality. I read the Parelli Natural Horse-man-ship book, and am trying the training with her. It is really helping. She bonded to me and wants to learn. When we have a bad day, she seems to try to make up for it the next day. Is that possible? One day, she did her routine at liberty, which was breathtaking, especially the circle game. Since I had her only a week, I thought it might be a sign of good things to come in the future. She also will follow me around at a canter, which is really fun, too. My dream is to have a safe, fun, all-around horse for the family, but I guess I have to give it time. I would like to find Parelli resources on the web, since I don't have much money for videos, lessons and clinics right now. Thanks again, Ksenia PS: Since the other people were brave enough to admit tearing up with the video, I guess I should, too! Dear Jerry,
I am new to your blog, but glad I found it. Very moving, inspiring video. I expected it to be a tribute to your horse only, but it was more universal than that. Thank you, and please thank your wife for me. An old Icelandic show and school horse was my teacher. Also I learned a lot from doing most of the ground and green work to develop an icey mare. Do you think Icelandics are a little different from other horses? They don’t usually respond as a prey animal as much, not having any natural enemies for a long tim. At least that is the conventional wisdom about them I have heard. My first horse of my own is supposed to be an 6 year old icey, but she has a difficult personality. I read the Parelli Natural Horse-man-ship book, and am trying the training with her. It is really helping. She bonded to me and wants to learn. When we have a bad day, she seems to try to make up for it the next day. Is that possible? One day, she did her routine at liberty, which was breathtaking, especially the circle game. Since I had her only a week, I thought it might be a sign of good things to come in the future. She also will follow me around at a canter, which is really fun, too. My dream is to have a safe, fun, all-around horse for the family, but I guess I have to give it time.
I would like to find Parelli resources on the web, since I don’t have much money for videos, lessons and clinics right now.
Thanks again, Ksenia

PS: Since the other people were brave enough to admit tearing up with the video, I guess I should, too!

]]> By: Janis Getz http://parelliworld.com/do-horses-lie/comment-page-1/#comment-47 Janis Getz Wed, 07 Jan 2009 19:00:20 +0000 http://parelliworld.com/?p=82#comment-47 Hi Jerry. Thank you for sharing your story with Khan. It helps all of us to know that so many struggle with horses that are not so easy, and to realize that they've come to us to teach us the lessons we need to learn. Teaching horses has been a lifelong commitment to me, and has been pretty easy--until Jet came along. An LB Appendix Quarter horse gelding that I met because he was someone else's problem. He was the reason for going to my first two-day Parelli clinic. He didn't even belong to me at that time. My freinds wanted to know why I didn't take my own horse. My answer? Because I can learn more with Jet. Long story short, Jet is my partner now. It has been an eye opening journey. Coming back from the Jacsonville, FL 2008 tour something in me changed. Perhaps attitude, perhaps a better listening ear. We played a relationship changing "catching game," and, like Khan with Jerry, Jet finally let me all the way in (after 3 years). We are starting our level three journey, and he surprises me every week by his efforts and new desire to play with me. I guess I'm finally interesting enough for him!!! Thanks again, Janis Hi Jerry.

Thank you for sharing your story with Khan. It helps all of us to know that so many struggle with horses that are not so easy, and to realize that they’ve come to us to teach us the lessons we need to learn. Teaching horses has been a lifelong commitment to me, and has been pretty easy–until Jet came along. An LB Appendix Quarter horse gelding that I met because he was someone else’s problem. He was the reason for going to my first two-day Parelli clinic. He didn’t even belong to me at that time. My freinds wanted to know why I didn’t take my own horse. My answer? Because I can learn more with Jet. Long story short, Jet is my partner now. It has been an eye opening journey. Coming back from the Jacsonville, FL 2008 tour something in me changed. Perhaps attitude, perhaps a better listening ear. We played a relationship changing “catching game,” and, like Khan with Jerry, Jet finally let me all the way in (after 3 years). We are starting our level three journey, and he surprises me every week by his efforts and new desire to play with me. I guess I’m finally interesting enough for him!!!

Thanks again,
Janis

]]> By: Janette http://parelliworld.com/do-horses-lie/comment-page-1/#comment-46 Janette Fri, 02 Jan 2009 19:32:42 +0000 http://parelliworld.com/?p=82#comment-46 How Inspiring! I find it comforting that we all do experience so many similar feelings, chanllenges, excitements and joys during our journeys with our four legged partners. Thank you for sharing; It adds comfort just knowing that me and my horse are not alone with our challenges and joys. How Inspiring! I find it comforting that we all do experience so many similar feelings, chanllenges, excitements and joys during our journeys with our four legged partners. Thank you for sharing; It adds comfort just knowing that me and my horse are not alone with our challenges and joys.

]]> By: Mary Ann http://parelliworld.com/do-horses-lie/comment-page-1/#comment-44 Mary Ann Sat, 27 Dec 2008 11:54:40 +0000 http://parelliworld.com/?p=82#comment-44 Jerry: Excellent cinematography on the video! Loved it! Excellent article on relationships! I think we all can relate to some degree. Most important after reading, and watching your story it has made me want to work harder on developing my relationship with my horse! Thank you! Jerry:

Excellent cinematography on the video! Loved it! Excellent article on relationships! I think we all can relate to some degree. Most important after reading, and watching your story it has made me want to work harder on developing my relationship with my horse!

Thank you!

]]> By: Hana http://parelliworld.com/do-horses-lie/comment-page-1/#comment-43 Hana Sat, 20 Dec 2008 01:01:23 +0000 http://parelliworld.com/?p=82#comment-43 Hello Jerry, I have learned that horses do not lie. My horse Josie would blow-up if we asked her to trot. We learned that it was not behavior, but her telling us that she hurt and her feet were shod incorrectly, so her feet were uneven. I find it interesting that people don't, or can't, read their horse's body language. With every thing that a horse does, horses are telling us a message. I think it's great that you wrote an article on this subject. I find it outstanding that Khan thought to tell you that he had had enough of liberty by limping. With many thanks, Hana (age 11) Hello Jerry, I have learned that horses do not lie. My horse Josie would blow-up if we asked her to trot. We learned that it was not behavior, but her telling us that she hurt and her feet were shod incorrectly, so her feet were uneven. I find it interesting that people don’t, or can’t, read their horse’s body language. With every thing that a horse does, horses are telling us a message. I think it’s great that you wrote an article on this subject. I find it outstanding that Khan thought to tell you that he had had enough of liberty by limping.

With many thanks,
Hana (age 11)

]]> By: Marcia http://parelliworld.com/do-horses-lie/comment-page-1/#comment-40 Marcia Sun, 14 Dec 2008 21:18:19 +0000 http://parelliworld.com/?p=82#comment-40 A very nice tribute to your friend and teacher. Thank you for sharing your story. Each horse in my life has been a teacher, even though I did not always understand what they were trying to tell me. Hopefully, I am learning to listen more effectively. Thank you Jerry for the inspiration. A very nice tribute to your friend and teacher. Thank you for sharing your story. Each horse in my life has been a teacher, even though I did not always understand what they were trying to tell me.
Hopefully, I am learning to listen more effectively. Thank you Jerry for the inspiration.

]]> By: Rehab http://parelliworld.com/do-horses-lie/comment-page-1/#comment-39 Rehab Sat, 13 Dec 2008 12:47:38 +0000 http://parelliworld.com/?p=82#comment-39 Hey there! Both the article and the message you've sent us were great, and I continue to learn from my mare, Honey (a little LB Arab/QH with a LOT of spunk!). I can't watch the video, as I'm crying just thinking of my own first horse! Maybe later... My first horse (14-hand RB Introverted Arab)was my best friend, and I still miss him terribly! I knew what to do with him as I could identify with his horsenality easily. I had to put him down at 31 years old in 2007, and I'm trying very hard to work past the emotions left in his wake so that I can ahve a good relationship with the horses I have here. She challenges me constantly and is smarter than I am in many instances, and boy is she eager to show it! We get along, and she's good enough to put up with me, and I'm thankful for that. Again, I'll watch the video when I'm not an emotional mess. Thanks for sharing your story Jerry! Hey there!

Both the article and the message you’ve sent us were great, and I continue to learn from my mare, Honey (a little LB Arab/QH with a LOT of spunk!). I can’t watch the video, as I’m crying just thinking of my own first horse! Maybe later… My first horse (14-hand RB Introverted Arab)was my best friend, and I still miss him terribly! I knew what to do with him as I could identify with his horsenality easily. I had to put him down at 31 years old in 2007, and I’m trying very hard to work past the emotions left in his wake so that I can ahve a good relationship with the horses I have here. She challenges me constantly and is smarter than I am in many instances, and boy is she eager to show it! We get along, and she’s good enough to put up with me, and I’m thankful for that. Again, I’ll watch the video when I’m not an emotional mess. Thanks for sharing your story Jerry!

]]> By: Heidi Moseley http://parelliworld.com/do-horses-lie/comment-page-1/#comment-38 Heidi Moseley Sat, 13 Dec 2008 05:20:13 +0000 http://parelliworld.com/?p=82#comment-38 Dear Jerry, Was wonderful and moving to read your article in the savvy times. The care for the relationship and dignity of the horse ,as well as your students is evident in all of us you reach out too. Your thoughts about Kahns barriers to a deeper relationship, even while trusting you, were very meaningful to me. Thanks for the inspiration and motivation to keep in there, even if our leadership skills are in need of development. Love knowing you are out there succeeding Heidi Dear Jerry,
Was wonderful and moving to read your article in the savvy times. The care for the relationship and dignity of the horse ,as well as your students is evident in all of us you reach out too. Your thoughts about Kahns barriers to a deeper relationship, even while trusting you, were very meaningful to me. Thanks for the inspiration and motivation to keep in there, even if our leadership skills are in need of development. Love knowing you are out there succeeding Heidi

]]> By: claudia parkhurst http://parelliworld.com/do-horses-lie/comment-page-1/#comment-37 claudia parkhurst Sat, 13 Dec 2008 04:21:12 +0000 http://parelliworld.com/?p=82#comment-37 Dear Jerry, First of all, God bless Bonnie for documenting your love affair with Kahn. And thank you both for sharing it with us. Your loving tribute to Kahn touched my heart and reminded me once again that love is always the answer. As you share your wisdom with us, Kahn continues to live through you as a great teacher. And you, my friend, are his excellent student. I know I am fortunate to be your friend and your student. I am sorry for your loss and I honor your ability to share the wisdom you gained from your relationship with your buddy,Kahn. With love and admiration, me Dear Jerry,
First of all, God bless Bonnie for documenting your love affair with Kahn. And thank you both for sharing it with us.

Your loving tribute to Kahn touched my heart and reminded me once again that love is always the answer. As you share your wisdom with us, Kahn continues to live through you as a great teacher. And you, my friend, are his excellent student. I know I am fortunate to be your friend and your student. I am sorry for your loss and I honor your ability to share the wisdom you gained from your relationship with your buddy,Kahn.

With love and admiration,

me

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